Use base::strsplit to
Examples
ls <- do.call(c,lapply(sample(4:8,20,TRUE),function(i){
paste(sample(letters,i,TRUE),collapse = "")}))
ds <- do.call(c,lapply(1:20,function(i){
paste(sample(ls,1),i,sample(ls,1),"23",sep = "_")}))
str_extract(ds,"([0-9]+)")
#> [1] "1" "2" "3" "4" "5" "6" "7" "8" "9" "10" "11" "12" "13" "14" "15"
#> [16] "16" "17" "18" "19" "20"